NgoSuku Lomama ngo-2026, ngifuna ukubhala ngo-anti wami wesibili.
Akayena usaziwayo noma umuntu onethonya, kodwa uchithe impilo yakhe esibonisa ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela ukuba ngumama nokuthi amandla owesifazane angaba yini.
I. Intombazane Eyaphuma Emalangabini Empi
NgoMeyi 1939, u-anti wami wazalelwa eGanzhou, ngesikhathi seRiphabhulikhi yaseShayina.
Kwakuyisikhathi sokuphazamiseka. Lapho abahlaseli baseJapan bengena eGanzhou, wabanjwa eseyingane encane. Waluma isosha lesitha kanzima futhi wakwazi ukubaleka. Ukuze asinde, wagcoba ubuso bakhe ngomlotha wesitofu, wacasha ethuneni elingenalutho ekhaya lesihlobo sakhe emaphandleni, wabamba umoya wakhe njengoba izinkemba zesitha zazikhanya phambi kwamehlo akhe.
Noma kunjalo, akazange ayeke izincwadi zakhe. Wayephumelela kakhulu ezifundweni zakhe, kodwa esikoleni samabanga aphakathi, uyise washona ngokuzumayo. Impilo yamshaya kakhulu, kodwa akazange ayeke.
Ngo-1956, wangeniswa e-Xi'an Jiaotong University — intombazane yaseGanzhou eyavula umnyango wesikhathi esizayo ngolwazi.
II. Iminyaka Emine Yekolishi, Uhambo Olulodwa Kuphela Lokubuyela Ekhaya
Ukuze onge imali, waya ekhaya kanye kuphela phakathi neminyaka yakhe emine ekolishi. Isikhathi esisele, wayesebenza isikhathi esithile emtatsheni wezincwadi waseyunivesithi. Umfundi wesifazane ofunda ubunjiniyela bokushisa akagcinanga ngokusekela izifundo zakhe kodwa futhi nothando lwakhe ngomndeni wakhe okude.
Ngemva kokuphothula, wabelwa ukusebenza esiteshini sikagesi.
Ngolunye usuku, ngesikhathi evakashele umnyango wezindwangu e-Xi'an Jiaotong University ukuyobona umngane wakhe wasekhaya, wethulwa endodeni eyayizoba ngumyeni wayo — umalume wami wesibili.
Ngaleso sikhathi, umalume wayengumfundisi osemncane. Ngemva kokuphothula eShanghai Jiao Tong University, wafundisa eNorthwestern Institute of Technology (eyayisandulela iNorthwestern Polytechnical University). Ubaba kamalume wayengusomlando odumile ofundisa eNorthwest University.
Ngesikhathi u-anti wami ehlangana naye okokuqala, wayengakhulumi ngothando. Kunalokho, wayethembekile:
"Ngingumntwana wesibili emndenini wami. Kufanele nginakekele izingane zakwethu ezincane. Iningi lomholo wami lizoya ekuzinakekeleni."
Umalume waphendula kuphela wathi: “Ngeke ngiyithathe imali yakho.”
Wasigcina leso sithembiso impilo yakhe yonke.
Njengabafundi abaphothule kahle kakhulu eShayina yasekuqaleni, bobabili bahlanganyele emsebenzini omkhulu wokwakha isizwe sezwe. Kwaze kwaba ngo-1992 lapho babuya khona ndawonye ukuzofundisa eJiangsu University…
III. Amadodakazi Amathathu, Imithombo Emithathu Yokuziqhenya
Ngo-1963, umalumekazi washada eneminyaka engu-24.
Ngemva komshado, wazala amadodakazi amathathu — abazala bami abathathu.
Yena nomalume wami abazange badlale amakhadi noma bahlanganyele ekuxhumaneni okungenamsebenzi. Sonke isikhathi sabo sokuphumula babesichitha besiza izingane zabo ukuthi zifunde futhi zikhule.
Namuhla:
Omdala nomyeni wakhe baphethe inkampani e-LAX, bephumelela emisebenzini yabo.
Owesibili usebenza eBhange laseShayina futhi wakhulisa indodakazi yakhe yaba yi-Ph.D. kwisayensi yamakhompyutha.
Owesithathu uhlala futhi usebenza eMunich, nomndeni ojabulayo.
Amadodakazi amathathu, izimpilo ezintathu ezahlukene, ngayinye ikhanya ngendlela yayo.
Futhi umalumekazi wami uyohlala engumthombo walokho kukhanya.
IV. Eseneminyaka engu-87, Uthatha Iklasi Lebhuloho
NgoMeyi 2025, umalumekazi wabuyela eShayina ukuyohlala phansi. Lokho kwanginika ithuba lokuchitha isikhathi naye, ngixoxe naye, ngikhumbule okwedlule — futhi ngifunde okuningi kuye.
Eseneminyaka engu-87, uthi:
Uzolile futhi uhlelekile- ukhaliphile engqondweni futhi uphilile emzimbeni.
Khuthala– ukufunda nsuku zonke, ukulandela izindaba, ukugcina idayari.
Ukuba nomqondo ovulekile– usanda kubhalisela ikilasi lebhuloho.
Ukwethemba– ukholelwa ekhonweni lezingane zakhe lokukhula zodwa.
Angikwazanga ukuzibamba ngambuza: “Anti, iyini imfihlo yakho yomshado ojabulisayo? Ngicabanga ukuthi leso yisivikelo esikhulu kakhulu ongasinika izingane zakho.”
"Qondanani futhi nibekezelelane. Qaphelani ukuthi wonke umuntu unamandla nobuthakathaka, futhi ninakekelane ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Uma kuvela izingxabano, yima kancane, lungisani imizwa yenu, bese nixoxa futhi."
Akukho filosofi enkulu — ukuhlakanipha okusobala nje.
Uvame ukungitshela ukuthi: “Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngendodana yakho, Tian Tian. Themba ukuthi izokhula kahle.”
Ngaleso sikhathi, ngaba nomona ngabazala bami — ngokuba nomama ohlakaniphe kangaka, ofundile kakhulu, futhi ozolile ngendlela emangalisayo.
Futhi ngiyabonga ukuthi, ngemva kokubuyela kwakhe ekhaya, ngikwazile ukufunda okuningi kuye.
V. Amandla Owesifazane
Indaba kababekazi ayiyona indaba yezinganekwane ezinyakazisa umhlaba. Yindaba yokuzinza nobumnene — owesifazane ovamile ohamba esikhathini esingavamile.
Lapha eJOFUNG, kanye naseduze kwethu, kukhona omama abaningi abasebasha futhi abazoba omama maduze.
Izikhathi zishintshile, kodwa ezinye izinto azishintshi —
Ukuzinikela ekukhuliseni nasekuphelezeleni izingane.
Isibindi esihambisana nokuba ngumama.
Ukubona isikhathi eside kukamama onothando.
Inhliziyo ehlela ngokujulile izingane zakhe.
Komama abavamile kodwa abakhulu besizukulwane esidala, sisengazuza amandla alula futhi ahlala njalo: hhayi ukuba ngumama ophelele, kodwa ukuba ngumama ohlala elwela ukuya phezulu, ongalokothi alahle ithemba, futhi ohlala ekholelwa ezinganeni zakhe.
Ngibhala lokhu ukuhlonipha umalume wami wesibili — kanye nawo wonke umama okhanya buthule ezinsukwini zakhe ezivamile.
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Isikhathi sokuthunyelwe: Meyi-18-2026